Thursday, December 23, 2010

It's the $4 fish that matters most.

A few nights ago I was talking with my oldest and closest friend. We were talking about Christmas and how people spend so much money on gifts and a lot of people really don't consider the true meaning of Christmas or whatever other winter time holiday they may celebrate. She told me something about her son's gifts that really struck a chord with me and I can't seem to stop thinking about it. The comment went something like this: "We got Kaden a fish from Santa. I know of all the money we've spent this Christmas, that four dollar fish is going to be the only thing that matters."

Something to consider this holiday season: What are the "four dollar fish" in your life? What are the things that truly matter most? When all the glitter and tinsel and paper and bows are long forgotten; when the shiny, expensive toys and designer shoes and handbags are out of style or faded and worn and shoved in the back of a closet to be forgotten - what are the things that get you through? What is it that truly makes you happy each day? What makes it worth dragging yourself away from the comfort of your warm, soft bed each morning?

My four dollar fish are:

1. My family - Without them I truly would have never made it this far.
2. My friends - I've got some of the best on earth and wouldn't trade them for anything!
3. Laughter - Do any of you have a private joke with a close friend that will always get you to laugh uncontrollably? Laugh until it hurts. It's good for your soul.


I challenge each of you to think about your four dollar fish this holiday season. I hope that we can all look passed the fluff and stress of the holidays and find true Joy that lasts all year.

Much love,

B.